上次星期五在討論中,提出了一個有趣的點 "何不就接受我們的弱點?"
-After I bought my iPhone, I got really addicted to my apps.
-"Draw Something"...
-Yeah! But for me, it's about convenience, and just make my life colorful, a lot of fun. But I won't use the apps we discussed today, because I don't want to be tied up by an app, and I want to train my willpower. Apps are for the daily life, to make somthing easier. But if we really want to train for a goal, make myself more mature, or maybe more close to a good person, or my concept of a good person, I don't want to rely on apps.
-Let me ask a question. What do you mean by 'a good person'. What's your definition?
-I can do more things, other people can rely on me, maybe I can make money, or maybe my mom and dad can fully retire, I can have more function. and maybe feel more confident about myself, Oh, I'm a good person, I can do anything, I can be happy in my life.
-So you're not good enough now.
-Yes, I'm not perfect.
-You're never perfect!
-Like english, you can always speak more smoothly, or express your thought more quickly.
-But I don't like saying 'good person'. The opposite of 'good person' is 'bad person', but we are not bad.
-Okay, say 'become a person you like'.
-I like that, become a person you like to be, or want to be."
-I want to say, why not just accept our weakness? We all have things to improve, but why not just accept that?
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